The Com from Dame is a cordless wand vibrator in a soft sage colour. Dame designs its toys with sex educators and engineers, and the Com brings the broad, rumbly stimulation of a wand into a size that is easier to hold and to travel with than a plug-in wand.

A wand works over the whole vulva rather than one small point, which suits anyone who prefers wide, even pressure. Try it on top of underwear first to find the intensity you like, then go direct.

Clean the head with warm water and a mild soap or toy cleaner after each use, and recharge it before it runs flat to keep the battery healthy.

Ships in plain packaging with no indication of the contents or the sender.